Thursday, April 28, 2011

Understanding Men and Women

Men and Women: How We are the Products of Our Past
Men and women evolved over a 450 000 year period known as the stone age. It was during this period that our psyches developed.. Civilisation is at the most 10 000 years old, and only then in some parts of the world. We can see that the mind has evolved to fit into a world very different from that in which we live.

During this long period people lived in small groups. Women banded together within them, caring for children, cooking and gathering food. Whatever women did, they were also looking after children. Although the children had individual mothers, they were largely cared for by the group as much as by their original mother. Marriage had not yet been instituted. When a woman was heavily pregnant or otherwise indisposed, she and her children were dependent on other women in the group.

Relationships and Relationns

Abstract: How does social psychology view love and successful relations? This review explores the topic of close relations, including friends and family, and intimate/sexual relations. The different types of relations/unions, such as marriages for heterosexuals and homosexuals, are presented. Love can be blind. All relations are based on interdependence (versus loneliness) or joined focus and activities and on some type of commitment. The family is where relations and attachment patterns start. Romantic relations start like friendships do. In conclusion, the desire for love and happiness in a relation overpasses any former relation pain.